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In regards to my previous post I got this comment on it (in case you all don't read them):

In spite of all your keen observations, you still grouped all men together into one big, negative group. Not all guys are afraid of commitment and trying to fuck on the first date or dumping girls for not putting out. The sad part is, the guys who want commitment and treat ladies with respect, etc. are completely ignored by women for dating. Most women, it seems, would rather date and fuck the assholes then bitch about it to the good guy. You know the good guy, the guy who is always there for girls to cry to, the one you "don't like that way", or the one regarded as a brother or in "the friend zone"...the one who you always bitched to about the manwhores and assholes...I wish women would realize those are the guys they should be dating, instead of bitching to them that there are no good guys. Umm...all most girls need to do to find a good guy is look at the guy next to them next time they are crying.
- Matt

So my answer is this. The previous post was not intended by any means to group all men together, just the tricky fuckers I date. I know there are men out there that want to be in loving commited relationships (If I didn't wish on this star and have hope I would have crawled in a hole and died along time ago.) You have no idea how many times I hear this from nice guys who are by the way in loving and commited relationships when they tell me. I personally don't have a "friend zone" I find those messed up and a total mind fuck for the guys I am friends with hence most of my male friends are married or gay. In all honesty I have not had a single male friend to cry on in about 2 years and the last time I tried dating my "friend zone" guy he did what other guys that I was crying to him about did: hit it and ran. He was pretty crafty I'll give him that and he was and is my absolute last friend zone guy.

My lovely (taken) male friends are exactly what I hope to find in a guy but it's just so rare for me to find someone genuine. I've dated enough to realize this I am not intentionally attracted to assholes and I believe me spot the warning signs early. So my advice to men in the friend zone, you know while your in that zone and that chick doesn't reciprocate and allows you still to be all friendly come be my friend cause women aren't stupid they know when a guy friend likes them. If she does tell you that she thinks of you as a brother pull back please and find me cause I guarantee you she knows how you feel or at least has a glimmer of a hint. Anyway, I can not tell you how much I wissssshhhhh that there was a guy that I was sitting next to that I could cry on right now, and the pisser about it is that I am with it enough to know that he would be "the one". That is one I am trying to find I guess you could say.